it’s nearly one am and I can’t get beesechorger or whatever the hell it is out of my fucking head the internet is a cruel and barren place devoid of any hope or chance of salvation
Keep an eye out for this pride flag! If you encounter someone with this pride flag as their icon, do yourself a favor and block/report them. This is the MAP pride flag. For those who don’t know, MAP stands for Minor Attracted Person, more commonly known as a pedophile. The MAP community is filled with adults who openly admit to having sexual feelings towards children, and post about how they fantasize about underaged children. It’s sick and disgusting, and these depraved individuals try and use tumblr as a platform to normalize their perversions. They appropriate the experiences of the LGBT community by feigning systematic oppression, and comparing the rightful societal condemnation of pedophiles to the violent persecution of the LGBT community, which isn’t even remotely comparable. It’s honestly reprehensible that they’d take advantage of pride by making a flag like this. It’s incrediblly dangerous because unifying symbols such as this create a platform for pedophiles to prey on children, and spread pedophilia-enabling rhetoric. Please spread this around if you can, and if you are a minor, don’t bother interacting with these scumbags. It’s not worth putting yourself in danger to call these people out or try to get them to see the error of their ways. Stay safe everyone!
It looks like the “Creator” of the flag is @/dont-mistake-our-geography, she is an avid MAP supporter and possible MAP herself. She has her main blog in her title under “stennastims” which she says she’ll follow from! So, if you get followed from either! Block them!
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What the ever loving fuck is goin on with these sickos!?!?!
literally walked out in the sun for hOurs yesterday w out protection against heat nd now I am d e a r l y paying the price someone come take care of n feed me pls thnx xoxo
I can’t stop thinking about a scenario where character A is whimpering and begging character B to rub their stuffed tum and B teases them by just gently placing their hands there or rubbing very lightly while A arch their back and tries to grind their tum against B’s hands to get a deeper massage and some relief for their aching belly ahhhhAAAA.
not to be r*mantic on main but i deserve to be able to climb onto the roof of an abandoned building and stargaze with someone i love at least once in my life
tryna find cute ppl that match up w ur orientation and aren’t dicks
tryna find cute ppl that match up w ur orientation and aren’t dicks that aren’t taken
tryna find cute ppl that match up w ur orientation and aren’t dicks that aren’t taken and have the same kinks as u
tryna find cute ppl that match up w ur orientation and aren’t dicks that aren’t taken and have the same kinks as u and are sexually compatible
tryna find cute ppl that match up w ur orientation and aren’t dicks that aren’t taken and have the same kinks as u and are sexually compatible that also are attracted to u
For those of you who don’t know, a feedist is a person who derives sexual pleasure from eating, seeing others eat, or people feeding each-other. Another term for this is being a stuffer, or belly stuffer, though this refers mostly to the aftermath of being fed/stuffed.
This little post is meant to be both humorous, and informative, since most people don’t really know about this fetish. If you find yourself with a partner who is into this, and are not sure what to do, here’s a basic guide to feedism in general. Note that this won’t cover everyone, as there are many sub-divisions of feedism, as well as associated fetishes, and everyone has their own tastes. But I will do my best to sum it up, feedist to non-feedists and beginner feedists. I should also not that I am not a doctor, so do not take this as medical advice.
Initial questions:
Is it safe? Yes, when practiced safely. As with most fetishes, there are concerns, the main ones for feedism being health, mostly weight and blood sugar. It’s crucial to trust your partner, as with any type of sexual activity. Have a safe-word if you must. And if you are uncomfortable with anything, physically or mentally, stop, and discuss it with your partner.
Does my partner want me to gain weight so that I’m ugly to other people? Most likely, no. Sadly, this is a common misconception about people in the feedism fetish community. More often than not, feedists actually have a higher drive to care for their partners than other people. Most of us do not want to hurt you. Also, not all feedists are fans of weight gain (or WG); many are, but not all (myself and my boyfriend included). We do not want you to be ugly. We also don’t want to hurt you. Some of us just happen to be turned on my gaining and/or discomfort.
Why on earth do you like this? We honestly don’t know. Most of us can’t find rhyme or reason to it. Many of us can remember being attracted to bellies and eating for as long as we can remember, a lot of us having discovered our interest from watching cartoons of characters stuffing themselves silly, when we were very little. But we have no idea what causes it.
How do I know if I’m with a feedist? Ask us? Seriously, most of us are too shy to talk about it. We know it’s weird. So the best thing to do is just ask. We might get flustered, but so long as you’re nice, usually, we’ll be very happy you even brought it up.
Is a feeder (the person giving someone else food) always the dom/top? Is the feedee (person eating) always the sub/bottom? Not exclusively. It should be noted that feeders and feedees can both be any type of sexual partner– dom, sub, or switch/middle. Feeder doesn’t necessarily always equate to dom. There are also such things and power bottoms and timid tops, and other, more complicated sexual roles a person can play, that are best looked up separately, as they deserve their own discussion. But the point is, a feeder can be dom or sub, and a feedee can be dom or sub. They can also be anything in-between for that matter.
Are feedists always male/female couples? Not always. Feedism may take place in any relationship– hetero, LGBTQ+, poly (more than two partners), between friends, in queer-platonic relationships, or even with just one person by themselves. Anyone may take part in feederism, regardless of gender, orientation, sexual role, or relationship status.
I’m with a feedist and I want to make them happy. How do I do that? The best thing you can do is ask them what they want. One of the healthiest things you can have in any relationship is honest and shameless communication. Be fair, don’t judge, and compromise. If someone is willing to open up to you, then don’t throw it in their face by purposefully hurting their feelings. Many feedists are very sensitive and shy about their fetishes. Please be kind to them. Be honest with each other, and as long as you trust each other, be open to trying new things. Really, I think I can speak for most feedists/stuffers when I say it means the world to us when someone is willing to indulge us. Never be afraid to ask us questions, cause most of us are more than happy to talk once we know you’re okay with it.
Lingo
There are some terms used in feederism that non-feeders, and even many feeders, may not be aware of. Here’s a short list of some basic short-hand used with feedism.
Feeder - someone who enjoys feeding others Feedee - someone who enjoys being fed Dominant - (general term) someone who likes being in charge Submissive - (general term) someone who likes to be lead by someone else Swtich - may refer to either: someone who can be either dom or sub; OR, alternatively, someone who can enjoy both feeding and being fed BBW - big, beautiful women; heavy women who are admired for their looks (not sure what the male equivalent is) SSBBW - super-sized big, beautiful women; very large heavy women who are admired for their looks (also not sure what the equivalent is) Bloating - a method of “stuffing” involving filling one’s belly with air or liquid; often done by ingesting large amounts of soda and/or mentos or other bloating food/drinks, by swallowing air, or using an enema (can be risky if not done right) Stuffing - a method of filling one’s belly with solid food Inflation - a method of filling one’s belly with air, usually via pump inserted in the anus (possibly dangerous; please use caution) Pred - (specific to vore) a person who likes to imagine swallowing another person whole Prey - (specific to vore) a person who enjoys imagining themselves being swallowed whole Squish - (specific to vore) a prey who is also the pred’s partner and repeated prey Breeder - (specific to pregnancy fetishism) someone who has multiple babies because they enjoy being pregnant Reaction bloating - bloating based on SCIENCE! - in other words, soda+baking soda and other things that go BOOM when put together (must be SAFE and EDIBLE) Plugging - not pooping for an extended period of time, often using a butt plug (can be risky) Scene - (general term) a session of feeding and/or role-play Safe word - (general term) a non-sexual word used to signal that you have had enough and need to end a scene Aftercare - (general term) follow up care and/or treatment for any discomfort caused by a scene/feeding, as well as personal wind-down time; this will be different for every person
Associated fetishes:
There are many fetishes that sometimes accompany feedism. This is a short list of just SOME. Please remember, not all feedists have these. In fact, most of us only have one or two, if any, side-fetishes from feederism. And if you see something gross, don’t get too concerned. Most feedists are willing to compromise if something weirds you out too much.
Belching - just as it sounds Stomach noises - again, as it says Eproctophilia - farting Maiesiophilia - pregnancy Force Feeding - feeding against one’s will, or (softer) encouraging a less than willing partner; in scene, this should always be done with the partner’s consent and safe words in place Weight gain - pleasure from putting on weight or seeing someone else put on weight Fat admiration - preference for heavy pertners Oviposition - being impregnated with eggs Vore - one person or creature devouring another, usually whole and alive Coprophilia - otherwise known as scat; poop Emetophilia - vomit, vomiting, nausea BDSM and associated fetishes - This is a whole ‘nother category on its own, but is often associated with feedism, especially for those who like tummy aches.
It is possible for feedists to be involved in any number of other fetishes/communities, as well, such as Caregiver/little, pet play, and any number of other things.
Possible concerns
As stated above, there are some concerns when getting into a feedist relationship. The two biggest problems many of us run into are our weight, and our blood sugar. Digestive issues can also be a worry for those who’s tummies don’t quite work the way others’ do. Again, since I’m not a doctor, and I am a fairly healthy individual aside from some pudge, I can’t really speak much here. But I will give a list of sites where you might be able to find some help in the Feedist Resource section.
Also, bloating and inflation can be dangerous if not done properly. It is very easy to fill the stomach too fast and too full when using as air pump, enema pump, or reaction bloating, or even just eating WAY too much. And you CAN rupture your stomach, intestines, or colon. Always start VERY small, and work your way up. Ask others who have done it before you. And, of course, don’t be afraid to ask a doctor. It’s actually probably a good idea to do so before trying anything that can endanger your health.
Constipation, if left untreated, can also lead to blockage. If you are “plugging” for any period of time, make sure to take care that you do not become impacted. Again, do research and ask a doctor.
If you are a gainer, or are with a gainer, be careful about how quickly you put on weight. Even though it’s fun, your body does need time to adjust. And make sure you continue to exercise and do not let yourself waste away under all that fat. It is bad for you, and it can kill you. Fat isn’t always bad, but poor muscle structure and heart issues are.
It should be noted that after many feedings, there is a coming-down period, where you’re digesting everything inside you. You may experience cramps, stomach aches, diarrhea, constipation, bloating, and other symptoms. Take proper precautions from yourself to lessen these symptoms if you wish. Ginger ale (unless you just did a bloat) and pepto are usually good. Heating pads and water may also be good. But ask your doctor and do your own research. The type of care the feedee will need will be different depending on their body and the type of stuffing/feeding they did. This is the feederism equivalent to aftercare.
Also, this should go without saying, but please, PLEASE don’t eat anything that’s not edible. You don’t want to explain that emergency room visit.
Pay attention to your body. If something feels wrong or off, or you’re in excessive pain or discomfort, stop the session immediately, and call a doctor if necessary.
ALWAYS ASK A BLOODY DOCTOR. I am not one, and therefore, all my advice is just that. Please don’t consider me a medical resource. I am not a professional.
Feedism and Eating Disorders
I’ve seen this come up a few times and confronted it myself, so I felt this should be included. It is entirely possible for someone with an eating disorder to have a feeding fetish. They may or may not be active in feedism. This does not belittle either your disorder or your status as a feedist (should you chose to identify with that). This can actually be used as a coping mechanism. For some, it’s comforting to have something that can scare them presented in an intimate way with someone they trust. For others, it’s simple two traits existing within them separately. There are also many other ways this situation can exist. Whatever the case, it is perfectly valid and okay to be a feedist with an ED. Just make sure you take care of yourself/your partner(s). In these situations, open and honest communication is especially important, especially about limits and discomforts.
If you’re interested in feedism but struggle with an ED and feel alone, feel free to look through the notes on this post. It might help to know you’re not the only one.
Feedist resources
These are some sites which may help you further understand exactly what feedism is, as well as ideas on practicing, and hopefully, get more comfortable with yourself and/or your partner. Always remember, not all advice you find will be sound, and it’s always best to do actual medical research on thing, and ask a doctor if you have to.
Stomach Ache Cafe Specifically for fans of stomach discomfort. This is mostly a story/fantasy site, but also has some advice threads. It if a forum, and you may interact with its members if you have an account. http://forum4.aimoo.com/stomachachecafe
Feedist Confessions A tumblr blog dedicated to confessions from feedists. A good place to get things off your chest, and also to know you’re not alone. http://feedistconfessions.tumblr.com/
Fantasy Feeder I’ve never used this site myself, but it seems like a good general resource. http://fantasyfeeder.com/home
Ask Dr. Feeder Another site I’ve never used, but this is supposed to be dedicated to healthy feedism. I do not know if there is an actual doctor running the site or not. Do your research. http://askdrfeeder.dyndns.org/
Feabie A feedist/gainer dating site. Again, I’ve never used myself, so I can’t give a first-hand review. http://www.feabie.com/
The Moral Feederism Handbook Another site I’ve never used. But this seems like another good, general resource. It also seems to go more in-depth into myths and misconceptions surrounding the feedist community. https://moralfeeder.wordpress.com/
Stuffer31 I myself have never used this site, but my boyfriend has, and he likes it quite a bit. This is a place to find pictures and videos related to stuffing. I do believe most content must be paid for, however. http://vids.stuffer31.com/videos/
I hope you found this helpful. Please, let me know if there’s any way I can improve this little guide.
And if we’re in a relationship and you don’t want to take part in it, we won’t. I care about the person first, the kink can take a back fuckin’ seat.
In fact, reblog if you agree. Why the hell not- if you promise not to do anything to push your partner(s) into a kink they’re not into, and you’d still love them no matter what, rebloop the hell out of this.
Every week I get one or two hate anons, probably all from the same not-obsessed guy, that claim that I am too SMALL for the community. Yes I am not huge, yes I poke fun at that quite a lot, but since when has the feederism community had a minimum weight? Is there such thing as being too small?
Aren’t we all here to accept our bodies and be proud of who we are? Isn’t that the point? So why are we then going and beating down the people who are too small, too skinny, not big enough? It makes no sense.
I’m not saying you have to find the smaller gainers attractive, what you like is your thing. Just accept that they exist though, and be okay with that.
This community should be for everybody. There should be no gatekeeping, it’s pathetic and childish. We have enough haters outside of the community, we shouldn’t have any within it.
I like to have a pretty light-hearted blog with jokes and memes and belly pics, but this had to be said. Spread the love, that’s what feederism, or any community, is all about.
when the urge to stuff urself wears off & ur sitting there like caveman spongebob with ur big uncomfortable belly holding a half eaten slice of plain ass bread wondering what the fuck is the matter with u
So yesterday my friend and I watched Loving Vincent (an incredible movie, by the way, and the reason I’m on this van Gogh obsession lately). After it ended, we turned to each other like
a) hi im crying at how beautiful that was, how about you? yup? same
and b)
we should make a van Gogh painting right now
So we impulsively grabbed all the paint in the house, rolled out a big sheet of paper, and just dove in. This was our reference:
She mixed colors for the sky, and I made a palette for the grass.
At first, we tried to match van Gogh’s style as closely as possible. This corner was decidedly a success.
She was a bit nervous to undertake the bold swirly tree in the middle, but I’d say it turned out great 👌👌
At some point, though, we realized other influences might have been creeping in. These flowers? Solidly Monet.
These? I don’t even know what style they are but they are my children and I love them
In total, this took us about 4 hours, give or take. We had to stop when it turned midnight, bc…… sleep.
It didn’t end up looking exactly like van Gogh’s original (or even very much like it, for that matter), but as he himself said, “what is done in love is well done,” and we certainly made this with love and enjoyed the process immensely.
And, if I may say so myself, it’s not bad for a first time.
